Happy Birthday, Grace!


I can hardly believe that it has been a decade.  Ten years ago today, we entered surgery knowing there was a 20% chance that she wouldn’t make it through.  20% that became a heartbreaking reality.  But God is good.  He has taught me so very much about His love, His sacrifice, His GRACE.  He has given me the opportunity and the strength to hold other moms who have had to say goodbye too soon, and lift up many in prayer.  In His loving grace, he spared her from this world’s pain and took her right to be with Him in eternity.  I don’t know how the whole heaven thing works, exactly, but I imagine that she looks down on me from her perfect heavenly home and wishes I wouldn’t cry over her absence from this one.  Though my heart still hurts, and I know it always will, I can also see the beauty of what God can do through tragedy these ten years later.

Happy Birthday, baby girl.  I love you.

He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.  Ecclesiastes 3:11

Prayers for Tim & Megan



Claire Victoria King
January 12, 2015 – March 29, 2015


Please pray with me for Tim & Megan,
who said goodbye to their sweet Claire today.

You can read about their fight for her life on their Facebook page
Care for Claire

Father, please let Megan and Tim feel the peace that only You can give in a time such as this.  As their hearts are broken like never before and they fill so empty, I pray Your Love will pour into them and fill them.  Let them find comfort in their own words – that all she ever knew was love, and she couldn’t be in a more beautiful place. 

Claire spent much of her time on earth in the hospital.  The financial stress that comes with this tragedy can be such an added burden for the family.  Will you consider helping?

Donate Here.

Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Month

Please take a moment…. right now…. to pray for those you know, and those you don’t know, who have lost a baby.

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In 1988, President Ronald Reagan designated October as Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Month – an action that launched the Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Movement. Although over a quarter century has passed, this issue remains prevalent as, each year, approximately a million pregnancies in the United States end in miscarriage, stillbirth, or the death of the newborn child.

Did you know that:

  • One in four pregnancies ends in the loss of a baby
  • The loss of a child is recognized as the most intense cause of grief
  • Parents never “get over” the loss of a child – no matter the age
  • Parents experiencing grief without supportive care can have debilitating consequences such as PTSD, depression and anxiety that could further result in job loss, divorce, difficulties in daily living, or impediments with parenting of living children

The loss of a child stays with a family forever, but the emotional and physical impacts are often challenging for others to truly understand. Having support through grief is paramount to recovery. Raising awareness is the first step to accessing available help. Share Pregnancy and Infant Loss Support is a national provider of Perinatal Bereavement Care, headquartered in St. Charles, Missouri. The goal is to help families through their grief and to find healthy ways to integrate their loss into their lives.

Events across the country take place each October and help people to better empathize and support parents on their journey to hope. There are several events happening at the national Share Office during October as well:

Wave of Light Celebration:
October 15, 2014 is a universal day of remembrance for pregnancy loss and infant death. This day is observed with remembrance ceremonies and candle-lighting vigils, concluding with the International Wave of Light worldwide lighting of candles at 7 p.m. Share will host a Wave of Light ceremony on October 15 at the National Office in St. Charles, MObeginning at 6 p.m. For additional information or to RSVP, please email rcarlson@nationalshare.org or call 636-947-6164.

2014 Walk for Remembrance & Hope:
The Share Walk for Remembrance and Hope provides a beautiful ceremony and balloon release, along with a 1-mile or 4-mile walk. October 18, 2014 at Creve Coeur Park in St. Louis, MO.
For more information, visit http://www.nationalshare.org/walk.html.

Debbie Cochran, BSN, MA
Executive Director
Share Pregnancy & Infant Loss Support, Inc.
402 Jackson Street, St. Charles, MO 63301

Prayers for Lauren


Please pray with me for Lauren, who said goodbye to her precious baby boy tonight.

Father, please wrap your arms around this young mom as she grieves for her son.  Let her feel your presence and peace in this storm.  Let her take comfort in knowing that he feels no more pain, and is safe in your arms.  Let her know that she is not alone, and her sweet Isaiah will never be forgotten. 

Isaiah was born 9 weeks early and has spent nearly four months in Riley Children’s Hospital.  The family’s financial burden is great.  Will you consider helping?

Donate Here.

Leaf-Line-Divider-smallIsaiah Wilcox Jones
June 2, 2014 – September 23, 2014